About Divinity Life Coaching
Best-Selling Author | Holistic RN | Trauma-Informed Relationship & Attachment Coach | Speaker | Host of ‘SHE Podcast’
I help high-achieving professionals break free from insecure attachment, self-abandonment, and unhealthy relationship patterns so they can build secure relationships, trust themselves, and create a life they no longer have to survive.
Unlike traditional coaching, I combine my background as a Registered Nurse with trauma-informed coaching, nervous system regulation, attachment healing, and intuitive guidance to help you heal the root—not just manage the symptoms. Together, we’ll transform the patterns keeping you stuck so you can experience relationships that feel safe, reciprocal, and deeply fulfilling
I work with people who:
Keep repeating the same relationship patterns (anxious/avoidant cycles, emotional burnout, unhealthy attachment dynamics)
Feel stuck even though they understand their issues intellectually
Struggle with emotional regulation (overthinking, overgiving, shutting down, or over-attaching)
Are tired of “knowing better but still doing the same thing”
Often feel drained in relationships, work, or caregiving roles
Are you self-aware but still stuck in repeating emotional cycles you can’t break alone?
Hi there, I’m Joelle
Relationship Coach, Holistic RN, and Certified Spiritual and Personal Development Coach.
As a Registered Nurse with a background in Neuroscience, I created my programs to help individuals better understand themselves, improve communication, heal emotional patterns, and build healthier, more secure relationships.
I am also a co-author of the best-selling book “Slaying Miami”and have been featured on Legacy Makers TV. Host of ‘SHE Podcast’. Event Speaker specializing in the topics: Breaking Repeating Relationship Cycles, Mother/Father Wounds & Shadow Work in Relationships, and Feminine Energy & Emotional Safety.
While I work with people from all walks of life, I’m especially passionate about helping those who have been conditioned to suppress their emotions and disconnect from their authentic selves. From an early age, many individuals are taught that vulnerability is weakness, leading them to avoid expressing emotions, setting healthy boundaries, or forming deeper emotional connections.
These unresolved patterns often show up in relationships through anxiety, emotional disconnection, fear of abandonment, people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, or difficulty trusting others.
My approach combines neuroscience, emotional awareness, personal development, and transformational coaching to help clients break unhealthy relationship patterns, strengthen self-worth, improve emotional connection, and create healthier relationships with themselves and others.
Featured on
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Legacy Makers
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Neuxist Podcast
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Radical Responsibilities
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Slaying Miami
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Helping individuals break repetitive and unhealthy relationship patterns. She emphasizes the importance of using a "secure attachment blueprint" to foster confidence and emotional alignment.
Legacy Makers
Born into chaos and low self-worth, Joelle Barbarulo learns to survive early—then everything accelerates: a teen pregnancy, years in pharmaceuticals, motherhood, nursing school at 40, and a divorce that spirals into a bruising custody battle.
Heal The Root
A spiritual and transformational coach, registered nurse, and best-selling author who helps individuals heal deep-rooted patterns and reconnect with their authentic selves through a blend of neuroscience, somatic practices, and intuitive guidance.
Neuxist Podcast
Joelle takes us on a deep dive into the ways trauma shapes our lives, and how, rather than being something to hide or fix, it can be a source of strength, insight, and transformation.
Mindset Medicine
Together, they talk about the real work underneath self-love: healing the inner child, doing shadow work, breaking generational patterns, and learning how to receive without guilt.
Radical Responsibility
A conversation about healing without bypassing, reclaiming your voice, listening to the body before it screams, and choosing sovereignty over survival.
Mind, body, and soul.
I help self-aware individuals break repetitive emotional and relationship patterns by regulating their nervous system and changing unconscious behavioral cycles.
I don’t just “coach relationships” or “do mindset work.”
I solve:
Repetitive emotional cycles
Nervous system dysregulation in relationships
Over-functioning / under-receiving dynamics
Attachment-based patterns (anxious, avoidant, codependent behaviors)
Feeling stuck between insight and actual change
What Makes This Work Different
I don’t offer quick fixes or bypass the depth of your story. Instead, I help you heal with these...
This is your invitation to remember who you are
Not broken, not too much, not lost, but divine, worthy, and deeply powerful. Welcome home to yourself.